Hi, This is a bit strange, no matter what the version is, you should be able to see the instances here.
For example:

Can you see them in Task Manager -> Services? If you just need to restart it, you can do it here. But if you need to modify the settings, you need to use Command.

If there is no user permission problem, I recommend you to reinstall it.
Hope this will help.
Thanks.
ZHU